Author: Breezy Point Mom
•6:51 AM

He is the butterfly kid, a lover of nature and any type of creatures the Lord has made. For as far back as he can remember, he has been a creature lover. When he was 4, and before we moved here, it was snails. Then we moved to the country, and an entire new world of creatures entered his life. We have seen so many things here. Foxes, a mink, gopher tortoises, deer, squirrels. The lady who owned this home before us knew exactly what to plant in the yard to attract and nurture hummingbirds and butterflies. And the greatest of these is butterflies.

My butterfly kid has done it all. Twice we have bought butterfly gardens, and interestingly enough, he recently again asked us to send $5 to the company to obtain the Painted Lady caterpillars. We did this, in fact, and yesterday, 5 butterflies emerged from their chrysalises in our house. While that event generated a stir in our home, it was only 5 ... out of 10 caterpillars. That is not such a good turnout. Sadly, some butterflies died. We don't know why.

We have had 100% success with caterpillars and chrysalises found in the outdoors, though! I can't tell you how many times our son has brought a caterpillar, or a chrysalis, inside his butterfly container to experience the metamorphosis. Countless times. For a while, our entire screened breezeway became the butterfly container (until I discovered what the butterflies were doing to our screen!).

Our little son has always taken out books from the library on every imaginable small creature. Books on insects, spiders, worms, amphibians, turtles, snakes, birds, ladybugs, lizards, the list goes on. He has learned so much about all these creatures, and he has retained the information. He has educated us so much about a subject that we knew so little about. He has taught us to be more aware of, and to appreciate more, the abundance of nature the Lord has placed around us!
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•4:26 PM
I am so proud of the composition that my 8 year old son wrote today! I am copying it over here, exactly as he wrote it (except he used pencil, cursive, and composition paper):

The Big Storm
Yesterday, there was a big strong thunderstorm.
It swept through the sky and attaked us with hail
balls and rain! While the storm was raging, two
trees toppled over in a microburst! The rain was
like someone playing drums on the roof, the hail,
like rocks hitting bells. One tree downed a power
line. All evening, we watched the line man fix it.
It was an exciting day.


Thank you, Calvert School, for teaching my son how to write well! I think I will send it in to Calvert Connection for them to hopefully publish in the next issue. It is such a blessing to me to see my kids learn to write well.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•10:29 PM



One of the nicest things about homeschooling is that we are not tied to an external schedule. We can go on vacation any time we want to. That said, we have made our plans for this year. Our vacation will be at the end of September through early October. It will be all camping in our camper van! We did our own homemade conversion of this passenger van into a very comfortable camper van that sleeps two adults and two children. My husband created many clever contraptions for lighting, privacy, storage, bedding, and climate control that have allowed us to camp VERY comfortably inside this van. No, we can't really cook much inside it, there is no plumbing, and no bathroom, but this is not a big problem. We take advantage of the campground facilities and mainly sleep inside the van.


Since my MIL is in assisted living, and cannot travel to see us, we are trying to visit her as often as we can. We are shooting for once every four months. To do this, we drive to Pensacola, which is 1000 miles round trip from home. Since diesel fuel is so high, we figured we would make our regular trip to see "Mimi", and then instead of driving straight home, we would loop up north and do some things in Georgia. By the time we reach home, the net difference in miles is only about 200 miles, and we have had a vacation to boot!


So here is the plan: Visit MIL in Pensacola, stay in a local KOA Kampground for three nights. Enjoy the KOA amenities when we are not visiting family.


Next, travel to Pine Mountain, Georgia, and stay three nights in F. D. Roosevelt State Park. Visit Callaway Gardens, the Little White House, and spend time enjoying the park.


Next, travel to Cordele, Georgia, and stay three nights in Georgia Vets Memorial State Park. Visit the military museum there, and take a ride on the SAM Shortline RR to Americus and Plains.


Next, travel to Florida and stay one night in Stephen Foster Folk Cultural Center State Park.


Finally, return home.


We are pretty excited about this plan, as it will be a nice 10 night vacation and not too expensive. Last year, my husband got burned out on driving, because we attempted to drive the entire Blue Ridge Parkway and Skyline Drive in about 12 days, and it was double the overall mileage. It was a great camping trip, but too much driving.


This vacation should be more relaxed.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•10:59 PM
You never know what is going to happen in a day's time. Today, we and our neighbors experienced a microburst during a particularly severe and long lasting thunderstorm. Quite suddenly, the winds became exceptionally strong, like hurricane force. It scared us, and I immediately sent the kids into a closet. There was nickel sized hail for about 20 minutes, torrential rain lasting nearly an hour, and hundreds of lightning strikes.
About 6 o'clock, after the storm subsided, I went outside. Fortunately, we experienced no significant damage. But our northern neighbor lost a very old live oak tree, and our southern neighbor lost a similar tree. We just had a lot of items blown over and around, including our umbrella table and chairs by our pool. I was very, very thankful that we didn't lose any of our huge mighty oaks. Our southern neighbor shares a transformer with us, so the power company had to come out and de-energize it, knocking us out of power for a little while, until they finished working. The tree had fallen into the overhead line at our neighbor's yard. All is back to normal now, except for the sad loss of beautiful trees. Fortunately, nobody was hurt.
Now I realize how damaging a thunderstorm can be, even if there are no tornadoes. It was really something.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•7:39 AM
Well, despite all my best intentions, this family is becoming more "green" than ever. Maybe we are being caught up in the hype (I doubt it!) but more likely we are shocked by the high cost of fuel and the promise of higher energy costs. We learned that our electric utility is going to raise rates 16%. My philosophy on this is that I am happy to be "green", just so long as it doesn't cost me any more money. I am much more motivated by saving money. As far as carbon footprint goes --- well, lets say that after reading some books on the subject, I am NOT a big believer in human-induced global warming.

So.... we have actually begun to cut back on our energy use. We got an electric bill yesterday that showed that we have consumed 401 fewer kilowatthours than the same month last year. And this year is definitely hotter. That translates to about a $45 savings. Our electric bill for the past month was $138. (where we live, everything runs on electricity)

Here is what we have been doing:

1. Driving a lot less. We no longer take those casual one destination drives to the library, supermarket, bank, or store. We wait until we are already scheduled to go out for something else, and then add on these stops along the way.

2. While we are not really "hypermiling", we try to drive economically, by coasting more to stop lights, reducing our maximum speed, and driving like there is an egg on our accelerator pedal. It has helped to eek out a few more mpg out of our Hyundai, Mitsubishi, and Freightliner. (I'll explain the Freightliner in another post some time). They just reported that fuel consumption dropped by a whopping 1.8 percent in April. I believe that if the country goes back to 55 mph speed limit on the highways, we as a nation would dramatically decrease our fuel consumption overnight!

3. Home air conditioner use. We have two central a/c units -- the living area, and the bedrooms. We leave the bedroom unit off all day and night, only running it full blast for two hours before bedtime. This works fine, as long as we run the ceiling fan over our bed the rest of the night. If my son needs to do school work in the bedroom area, he asks for a/c, and that's fine, as long as he turns it off after finishing his work. My daughter, who at age 5 still needs some daytime naps, doesn't even miss the a/c.

4. The living area a/c is set to 82 degrees, and is on all day long, with ceiling fans to help. This has been fine, but our chocolate lab did complain some. He thinks we're nuts. I trimmed his fur a little. Hopefully he will get used to it soon. He is very spoiled about a/c. At night, we shut the a/c off to the living area, where he lives, and leave a ceiling fan on for him.

5. Our house has two hot water heaters. One for the bathrooms, and one for the kitchen/laundry. The kitchen/laundry is on a solar heater, and this provides 100% of its demand during the summer. In the coldest months of winter, we have to close that circuit breaker, but the rest of the year it is open.

6. Using a clothesline. This is one area I could improve. I run our dryer too much, and it is a big consumer of electricity. I hung out the laundry during the cool dry season, but haven't been during the hot humid (rainy) season. I am not sure how much$$ this saves, but I might try to do it some more this summer.

7. Swimming pool pump - can't cut back too much here, but we run it 12 hours a day, which is a slight reduction over last year.

8. My husband says I should turn off our desktop computer and CRT monitor overnight. It does pump out some heat. I am afraid that will lessen the life span of the computer. Anybody have any thoughts on this one? We already have the CRT shutting down after a short time.

So, that is how we are reducing our carbon footprint. It is amazing how one can get used to the 82 degrees thermostat setting. My husband recently returned from a business trip in Mexico. He said that the engineers in that office are really accustomed to higher temperature setpoints. They felt cold when the temperature was set below 80. When we were in Vietnam, it was the same. A/C was used very sparingly. I think we Americans are so accustomed to cheap energy that we overdo it. Get real. Many restaurants and public places can be freezing! If they would just raise their thermostats a little bit, look at how much energy could be saved. Okay - I will get off my soapbox now.

Have a nice day!
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•10:27 PM
Well, I am tired this evening. Mondays are busier days than others for me. On Mondays, we homeschool beginning at 9 a.m. Today, I tried to complete a full lesson for both children - that's a 3rd grade, and a kindergarten lesson. Then lunch. Then we left the house for our weekly violin lesson for both children. Although I love this, it is a tiring event for me because I need to carefully observe the lessons and take detailed notes. Lessons this summer have been lasting for 90 minutes (we signed up for an hour) because our teacher doesn't have a student arrive during the 30 minutes that follow our official lesson, so she just keeps teaching until the next student shows up. So, that amounts to about 40 minutes working with our daughter, and then 50 minutes working with our son. She did give an extraordinary amount of homework to our son this week. Lots of exercises and etudes. Lots of vibrato practice.


Then, we headed directly to our daughter's swimming class. This does entail sitting out in the 90 plus degree heat while we watch everybody in the cool pool. Thankfully it wasn't that humid today. Then, drive home, fix dinner, and eat when daddy gets home (around 6:15 today). After which we went for a walk, then did some grass seeding and weed trimming, then came inside and did violin practice, got the kids in to bed, and now sit down for the first time today.


This might not seem like a lot, but it is a busy day for me. I am too tired to analyze life today. Maybe tomorrow...
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•8:04 PM


This is our front porch. The rocking chairs were given to me for Mother's Day last year, and I really am fond of them. It would be nice if I could spend more time sitting on them!


Today is a day we have planned to cut the grass. It may not seem like much, but really, at our place, it's a big deal. We have been making use of two tractors: a 1948 Ford 8N agricultural tractor, that works, but needs to be rebuilt; and a Sears 25 hp garden tractor. We rapidly discovered that the Sears tractor is not up to the job of taking care of this property. So, first we went to the local gas station and bought ten gallons, which amounted to $42 today. Whew! Then we poured about half of that amount into the Ford. Well, most of the day was spent messing with the Ford. The battery was completely dead in the Sears tractor, so that didn't see any action today. The electrical system was very weak in the Ford, so that tractor had to be tinkered with half the day. Plus, half the day it rained. Long story short -- we just got two acres cut today. We went to Tractor Supply to get a new battery for the Sears tractor, but we probably need one for the Ford as well. Live and learn. There will be other Saturdays.


The good news is that this is only the second time we have had to cut the grass in 2008. The last time was over two months ago. It has really been a dry season, which makes us not have to cut much. The entire season from mid-October through mid-March, we don't have to do anything because the grass goes dormant. But this summer is shaping up to be a wet one, so we'll see. Might be a busy cutting season.
This is my husband when all is well and the Ford is a kickin'. It's a beautiful sight... pure poetry in motion!
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•10:11 PM
The children had a great time at VBS. They can't stop talking about it. All evening long, they pretend that all their little VBS friends are playing with them. It's so cute. Anyhow, they had a waterslide at the VBS today, for which I had to sign a liability waiver before they could participate. Talk about comforting thoughts. I am not used to these sorts of things. In fact, my kids are very rarely out of my sight. The only time they have not been with me over the years has been for two hours each week (during the school year) at AWANA meetings. So, imagine my trepidation as classic over-protective mom at..
1) sending them off to their first VBS and
2) having to sign a waiver. Yippee!!

So, of course, when I arrived at the church today, there is the inflatable water slide, looking about twice its actual height (to my eyes) and I am saying "gee that slide looks big.." and my five year old is saying "that slide looks small!". Must have been my eyes.. I think I am beginning to need bifocals. Maybe this prescription makes waterslides look bigger.

Fast forward a couple of hours, the children have been picked up, and they did have a great, great time. And both of them, of course, loved the waterslide.

So this is the first week since I've been a mom that I have had both kids away from me every day. They were gone from 9 - 12:30 each morning. Wow -- all that time just for ME! I can shop, I can visit friends, I can have lunch dates with other moms. So what did I do while they were gone?

I worked on my dd's adoption lifebook (see earlier post). I will write more about that some time. For this project, I used the book Lifebooks: Creating a Treasure for the Adopted Child by Beth O'Malley. I can't recommend this book highly enough for designing lifebooks. This week, I managed to begin the project, and complete 9 pages of the lifebook.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•10:41 PM

Here is our favorite photo of our children performing as part of a group in a violin concert in April. This was a very enjoyable evening for our family. The audience was great, and our children felt so happy to be part of this concert.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•8:33 PM
This is the first post of my first blog. This is a special week for our family. We homeschool year round, but this week is almost no school. This is the first time I have ever brought our kids to VBS (Vacation Bible School) and they are loving it. I have 3-1/2 hours of solitude each morning this week (very unusual for me, since I am normally with my kids 24/7/365) so I have planned to alleviate my severe guilt and work on my daughter's adoption lifebook. You see, I did a beautiful lifebook for her brother several years ago (uh.. that's 5 years ago) and never got around to doing one for my dd. She is 5 years old this year, and I am finally doing it this week. Hooray! My guilt is gone!

So, I drove one morning to T*rget to purchase the scrapbooking supplies that I ran out of, or didn't already have, and I have been moving along on this project all week. I had already written a draft of the lifebook text on my computer, and know what I want it to say. Now, I just do the decorative part, and the actual creation of each page of the lifebook. It will have about 16 pages, of which I have dug into only 5 so far.

What is a lifebook? Well, for kids who were adopted, it is a great way to share with them their life story from birth, as we know and understand it. It is an opportunity to write to them, on their own level of understanding, about their earliest days/months/ or years, in a way that answers their questions, and smooths the way for further conversation. My son likes his lifebook, and I hope that my daughter will too.

Beginning next Monday, we hit the books again. Both of my children are being homeschooled with the Calvert School curricula. My son is exactly half way through third grade as of this week, and my daughter is about two thirds of the way through kindergarten. We homeschool year round, and plan our longest breaks between Thanksgiving and New Year's Day each year. We do most of our school during the summer months. We also do most of our vacationing at off times throughout the fall, winter, and spring. It is too hot to go anywhere in the south during the summer months (in my opinion) and we can avoid crowds by vacationing at off times.

Thus concludes my first post. Welcome to my blog. I hope you enjoy reading about us, and come back often!