Author: Breezy Point Mom
•10:19 PM
Every summer at this time (mid-June) we enroll the children for a session of swimming lessons at a local swim school. The session includes eight lessons. They completed the objectives and graduated from the levels they were in, and their teacher took their photos underwater!


What do you think of these?
Baby Girl, minus one upper incisor. (two days later, she was minus both incisors!)
Little Son, the boy with Michael Ph*lps feet! Big feet, big kick.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•10:52 AM
If the temperature of heaven turns out to be

Seventy seven degrees...

then I'll probably need to bring...a light sweater!
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•12:34 PM
... I saw this on Susie Q&A this morning, and thought it would be fun to participate. Try it out and pass it on. If anything, this list reveals how impoverished my reading (and my education, in some ways) has been in my life. I've only read 25 of this list. But I have read many books that are not on this list that I think ought to be. I do wish to make this different for my kids.

P.S. Some of the books I don't believe should be on the list, and some I plan never to read at all (and feel no guilt for not reading).

Apparently the BBC believes most people will have only read 6 of the 100 books on the BBC big read top 100 book list. (really? That is pathetic!)

How do your reading habits stack up?

Instructions:
Copy the list, create your own new "Note" and paste text into it.

Look at the list and put an 'x' after those you have read. Make sure you delete my Xs!

When you've finished, tag 10 people to do it too, and put your total at the bottom.

Here we go!!!

1 Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen
2 The Lord of the Rings - JRR Tolkien
3 Jane Eyre - Charlotte Bronte (movie)

4 Harry Potter series - JK Rowling -- never plan to read these
5 To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee X
6 The Bible X
7 Wuthering Heights - Emily Bronte
8 Nineteen Eighty Four - George Orwell
X
9 His Dark Materials - Philip Pullman say what?
10 Great Expectations - Charles Dickens
11 Little Women - Louisa M Alcott X
12 Tess of the D’Urbervilles - Thomas Hardy
13 Catch 22 - Joseph Heller
14 Complete Works of Shakespeare
15 Rebecca - Daphne Du Maurier
16 The Hobbit - JRR Tolkien X
17 Birdsong - Sebastian Faulks
18 Catcher in the Rye - JD Salinger X (had to for high school, couldn't help it)
19 The Time Traveller’s Wife - Audrey Niffenegger
20 Middlemarch - George Eliot
21 Gone With The Wind - Margaret Mitchell
22 The Great Gatsby - F Scott Fitzgerald X
23 Bleak House - Charles Dickens
24 War and Peace - Leo Tolstoy
25 The Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy - Douglas Adams
26 Brideshead Revisited - Evelyn Waugh
27 Crime and Punishment - Fyodor Dostoyevsky
28 Grapes of Wrath - John Steinbeck X (unforgettable!)
29 Alice in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll X
30 The Wind in the Willows - Kenneth Grahame
31 Anna Karenina - Leo Tolstoy
32 David Copperfield - Charles Dickens
33 Chronicles of Narnia - CS Lewis X
34 Emma - Jane Austen
35 Persuasion - Jane Austen
36 The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe - CS Lewis
X
37 The Kite Runner - Khaled Hossein
38 Captain Corelli’s Mandolin - Louis De Bernieres
39 Memoirs of a Geisha -
40 Winnie the Pooh - AA Milne X
41 Animal Farm - George Orwell
42 The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown
you've got to be kidding
43 One Hundred Years of Solitude - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
44 A Prayer for Owen Meany - John Irving
45 The Woman in White - Wilkie Collins
46 Anne of Green Gables - LM Montgomery
47 Far From The Madding Crowd - Thomas Hardy
48 The Handmaid’s Tale - Margaret Atwood
49 Lord of the Flies - William Golding

50 Atonement - Ian McEwan
51 Life of Pi - Yann Martel
52 Dune - Frank Herbert X not one of my favorites
53 Cold Comfort Farm - Stella Gibbons
54 Sense and Sensibility - Jane Austen
55 A Suitable Boy - Vikram Seth
56 The Shadow of the Wind - Carlos Ruiz Zifon
57 A Tale Of Two Cities - Charles Dickens X (first book I ever read that made me weep)
58 Brave New World - Aldous Huxley
X
59 The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time - Mark Haddon
60 Love In The Time Of Cholera - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
61 Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck X
62 Lolita - Vladimir Nabokov
63 The Secret History - Donna Tartt
64 The Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold
65 Count of Monte Cristo - Alexandre Dumas
66 On The Road - Jack Kerouac
67 Jude the Obscure - Thomas Hardy
68 Bridget Jones’s Diary - Helen Fielding
69 Midnight’s Children - Salman Rushdie
70 Moby Dick - Herman Melville
71 Oliver Twist - Charles Dickens

72 Dracula - Bram Stoker
73 The Secret Garden - Frances Hodgson Burnett X
74 Notes From A Small Island - Bill Bryson
75 Ulysses - James Joyce
76 The Inferno - Dante X
77 Swallows and Amazons - Arthur Ransome
78 Germinal - Emile Zola
79 Vanity Fair - William Makepeace Thackeray
80 Possession - AS Byatt
81 A Christmas Carol - Charles Dickens X
82 Cloud Atlas - David Mitchell
83 The Color Purple - Alice Walker X
84 The Remains of the Day - Kazuo Ishiguro
85 Madame Bovary - Gustave Flaubert
86 A Fine Balance - Rohinton Mistry
87 Charlotte’s Web - EB White X
88 The Five People You Meet In Heaven - Mitch Albom
89 Adventures of Sherlock Holmes - Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
90 The Faraway Tree Collection - Enid Blyton
91 Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad X
92 The Little Prince - Antoine De Saint-Exupery X
93 The Wasp Factory - Iain Banks
94 Watership Down - Richard Adams
95 A Confederacy of Dunces - John Kennedy Toole
96 A Town Like Alice - Nevil Shute
97 The Three Musketeers - Alexandre Dumas
98 Hamlet - William Shakespeare X
99 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory - Roald Dahl X
100 Les Miserables - Victor Hugo

Other books I think should be on the list (off the top of my head): All Quiet on the Western Front (Remarque); The Robe (Douglas); The Chosen (Potok); The Hiding Place (ten Boom); 1984 (Orwell); The Seven Storey Mountain (Merton); Mere Christianity (Lewis); It Can't Happen Here (Sinclair Lewis); Brave New World (Huxley)
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•6:28 PM

Boy, it has been hot here since Friday. I don't think I ever remember temperatures like this in the fifteen years I have lived in this state.

Topping out near 100 degrees every day, with high humidity and heat indexes of 105-110.

This morning, at 6:30 I stepped outside and it was still 82 degrees and humid.

How many days until autumn again?
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•1:46 PM
At any given time, I am reading several books. I read them at different rates, finishing then in random order, according to how well they grab my interest. Occasionally, a book doesn't ever get finished. Through some books I creep, one chapter at a time, with portions of (or entire) other books being read in between. Sometimes my reading expands to eight books or so at the same time.

Right now, the list contains eight books, and they are as follows:

1. A Wrinkle in Time, by Madeleine L'Engle: loved this book as a child. Little Son just read it and enjoyed it a good deal, so I decided to read it again.

2. Training Hearts Teaching Minds, by Starr Meade: this books is a vehicle through which I am teaching my children the Westminster Shorter Catechism and instructing them in our faith. Wonderful book. We will be with this one for about two years.

3. Whatever it Takes: Geoffrey Canada's Quest to Change Harlem and America, by Paul Tough: Just finished this one over the weekend. It is an absorbing narrative about the Harlem Children's Zone (an organization where my brother used to work) and Promise Academy charter school and how those folks are learning what does, and does not, work when attempting to break the intergenerational welfare cycle of poor families.

4. The Danger of Raising Nice Kids: Preparing our Children to Change Their World, by Timothy Smith: This one is taking me a long time to get through. It was a recommended read by Generations of Virtue. It is not the fault of the book, for the author writes in an engaging style and has many important ideas to share with parents. I guess it is that I am having difficulty keeping my attention on parenting books lately. Every time I read a book like this, I add mental items to my "to do" and my "mommy guilt" list, and believe me, I don't need any additional items added to those lists.

5. Behind Rebel Lines: The Incredible Story of Emma Edmonds, Civil War Spy, by Seymour Reit: this is the latest Sonlight read aloud book that our family is experiencing. This is a fast mover, and an exciting read. Yes, it is incredible, as in, difficult to believe the truth of this story, but that makes it all the more fun to read.

6. The Creator and the Cosmos: How the Greatest Scientific Discoveries of the Century Reveal God by Hugh Ross: A fascinating book, and an important book for our times, but definitely not an easy read. I wish at times like this that my science background were better, but it's not. So I content myself with reading a chapter at a time of books like this, absorbing the information slowly. It is incomprehensible how finely tuned are all the scientific constants of our universe, and the facts concerning our galaxy, sun, solar system, and our own planet and its very unique moon. It is startling, and intensely humbling, to see this latest attempt at scientifically describing and quantifying the incredible intelligence of our Creator.

7. Distracted: The Erosion of Attention and the Coming Dark Age, by Maggie Jackson


8. The Dumbest Generation: How the Digital Age Stupefies Young Americans and Jeopardizes our Future (Or, Don't Trust Anyone Under 30), by Mark Bauerlein

Books 7 and 8 are on hold at the library, and I am going to pick them up today. I have great interest in the subject of how consumer electronic technology is affecting our lives. I will let you know how the books are when I have read them. I think this is an important subject for parents, when we consider what, when, and to what extent we should expose our children to the trappings of modern digital society.

What are you reading these days?
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•1:38 PM
Okay, you other violin moms out there. Little Son has been assigned a new concerto. For those of you who know, he will be learning the Accolay Concerto in the coming months. He is very excited about it, especially after watching others play the piece on Youtube. The concerto is six pages long, and offers a lot of variety in mood, rhythm, and technique, including a final page full of double stops that sounds like a fiddle piece was dropped in as an afterthought. He will also need to play at times in fifth (and maybe even sixth?) position as well.

Anyhow, after some poking around online, I found a recording of Itzhak Perlm*n playing this piece. Since the file is free, it only contains the first half of the concerto, but hey, you get the idea. Please click on the link to hear it.

Accolay Concerto No. 1 in A Minor

It will be rather thrilling when Little Son has got it together and plays it for us. He is definitely motivated!
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•11:46 AM
Please turn the music off in the sidebar before viewing this powerful video, created by a 15 year old.

Author: Breezy Point Mom
•9:39 AM
This week is the second time that my children have gone to VBS. The first time was a year ago, the week this blog was born. During VBS, I find that I have fifteen hours of solitude time; the only such time all year long. I have to figure out how to spend these fifteen hours, for they are fleeting and will never return once spent.

The first roughly nine hours of this time, I spent doing basic household organizing (roughly 25% of the time) and working on my children's adoption lifebooks. An adoption lifebook is a type of scrapbook that you create for your adopted child, in which you carefully write the story of the earliest part of their life, prior to joining your family. You begin with the day they were born, and then write out, in an age-appropriate way, their own personal story of their beginning. This is a place to tell the truth about their life prior to adoption, sharing as much, or as little, as you know in a way that is gentle and understandable to them at their age. When the lifebook is done, it can be read like a very unique and special storybook, and it does a great job of breaking the ice when it comes to discussing difficult issues from their past. It can also be used to share what you know about the culture of the country where your child was born, bits and pieces of your experience in adopting them (although the book is not intended to be an adoption travelogue -- that is for a different scrapbook), your feelings about them and the way they joined your family, and any information that you do have about their birthparents. So, for example, page headings in our lifebook include: "The Day I was Born", "My Birthparents", "Why I was Adopted", "Life with My Foster Parents" or "My Life in the Orphanage", "My Journey to America", etc. You get the picture. The lifebook turns out to be an important tool and springboard to discussing your child's adoption with him or her.

Well, I had completed Little Son's lifebook back when he was two or three years old, save two of the last pages. But I had never done Baby Girl's lifebook. This was a heavy burden of guilt for me to carry, so last year, during VBS, I decided to do Baby Girl's lifebook. Which I did, except I never did finish it. I still had 4 pages left to do. These went undone, all year of course, until this week. Plus Little Son's lifebook needed two pages to be complete.

Drumroll, please. I am pleased to announce, that as of Wednesday, both lifebooks are finished! And I read them to the children again, and they like them very much. That is such a big load off me! Whew! (Baby Girl didn't even realize that I was making a lifebook for her until this week).

The next three hours of VBS time were about wrapping and shipping a Father's Day package to my FIL, and a birthday gift (now over a week tardy) to my nephew up north. Also, catching up on housecleaning that had fallen behind.

Which brings me to this morning, the final three hours of solitude for the year. I think I'll spend part of the time blogging (check), doing some correspondence, and maybe actually get to some reading. As usual, I am reading several books at once, but that's for another post.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•4:20 PM
It was a year ago today that this blog was begun. I can't believe it has been a year already.

From its humble beginning in June, '08, as a blog with just one reader, it has blossomed in merely one year's time into a blog with..... five readers? Maybe?

Anyway, Happy First Birthday, Blog!! May you enjoy many more happy, healthy, and fruitful years of exciting and inspiring posts.

And if any of my faithful readers are willing, please leave a happy birthday message, telling me where you live and how long you've been reading this blog.

After all, maybe there are more than five readers??
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•6:28 PM
... one that is becoming nearer and dearer to my heart as time goes on; especially as I am a homeschool mom: one who is a Bible-believing Christian and one who teaches my kids science and world history. A short review of the book Already Gone from Answers in Genesis appears here. I believe, as a person who holds mainly to progressive creationist views, that the points made by this review are important and should not be ignored.

At the risk of being controversial here, I would urge all my fellow Christian homeschool moms to at least give a fair look at the materials presented at this website and this one as they pertain to the age of the earth and the universe. I humbly ask that in doing so, you put aside, at least temporarily, the notion that old-earth believers are compromisers. No, I am not affiliated at all with these two organizations. But I greatly appreciate and respect the work that they do.

I don't want my kids to be part of the exodus referred to in the above book review. I realize that my children are likely to pursue careers in the future that require advanced levels of science or engineering education. I believe that telling folks that the evidence of mainstream science flatly contradicts the Bible is incorrect and harmful. Who says that the facts are mutually irreconcilable? Why do I have to choose between science and the Bible as if either one or the other is right, but not both? How many people have abandoned Christianity because they have been told this? And how many folks, who remain in the church for one reason or another, have their faith weakened because they must live with cognitive dissonance on account of what they know about science, and what they are told the Bible says?

Finally, a plug for an excellent video. Last week, we viewed as a family the DVD The Case for a Creator with Lee Strobel. What a fantastic presentation of creationism and intelligent design! Our family thoroughly enjoyed it, and its discussion of the cosmological, astronomical, and microbiological evidence for extraordinarily complex design in creation. The open minded viewer of this DVD should not only be honest enough to acknowledge the God of the Bible as our Creator, but should be driven to fall on his face before the supremacy of who He is, as evidenced by His unbelievable signature on creation. Some people are bending over backwards like a pretzel to avoid seeing this, and coming up with outrageous propositions to avoid the obvious. We highly recommend this video, but please note that in order to appreciate what is being brought out in the cosmological portion of the video, one needs to be open to old-earth perspectives on creation.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•1:52 PM
A lot has gone on here the past two weekends, except it has been difficult for me to blog about it because of all the thunderstorms we have been getting around these parts. It seems that bad weather makes our AT&T DSL connection fail intermittently 'round the clock, and it is often "down" more than it is up. It just keeps going in and out all the time, and could drop out at any minute, so it might take several attempts to get this post completed. Just for the record, everybody, AT&T DSL ~~~ not too reliable if the weather isn't perfect, and not too reliable if the weather is perfect but has had some imperfect moments within the past week or more.

That being said, a lot has gone on here in our garage. I will try to tell it through pictures. If interested, you can click any picture to get a better view. I have learned a bit about engines this past week, and so has Little Son. Who knows? Even some of my readers might find it interesting. After all, life is homeschooling, and the other way around.

Before I begin, I have to say that this project is / has been another demonstration of Self-Reliant Man's diligence, patience, creativity, longsuffering (mine, too, on this one), resourcefulness, patience, intelligence, analytical temperament, patience, pragmatism, persistence, and patience. Not to mention his self-reliance. Yes, he truly does display the gifts of the Spirit in these situations.

Now where was I? Oh yes, pictures and captions.

You know, this tractor rebuild project has kind of been like a pregnancy here, with a very long, agonizing labor. It has been at least 8 months in the works. I don't know, yet, whether we will forget the pain when it is truly all over. This remains to be seen. I certainly hope that the tractor's better functioning will make our lives more controllable and predictable on the weekends.

But what about the pictures (I can hear you asking)? Stop yapping, and show us the pictures!

I would have by now, except I am still waiting for them to upload.

Hold on, now.Little Son definitely got in the act where he could. Here he is showing his new wrench skills by extending the legs on the borrowed engine hoist.
When hoisting a 400-500 pound engine to mount to a fixed tractor, you have to get it lifted and positioned as level and straight (on all three axes) as possible in order to attach the bolts. So Self-Reliant Man has rigged up some fancy rope tricks using blocks of wood and various fancy knots he found in the K volume of World Book encyclopedia.
Of course, nothing goes perfectly on the first attempt (Self-Reliant Man has learned to accept this reality much better than I have) and it took a few repetitions and adjustments before everything was level after lifting off the ground.
By this point, we had it very well lined up and held in place by long screwdrivers until the bolts could be fastened. I was actually able to help with this step (when I wasn't taking pictures).
I think it was about all joined up by this point.
This is a rare look inside at the brand new cylinders and valves. Yes, all the sleeves, pistons, valves and rings were replaced with shiny new parts.
The head and gaskets were attached in an elaborate, painstaking procedure. There were 18 bolts that had to be connected in a specific sequence to ensure an equal and complete seal. Each bolt had to be torqued in stages, too. First, to 30 ft-lbs, then 50 ft-lbs, and finally to 70 ft-lbs. The, after the project is done, and you are breaking in the engine, you have to go back at two or three points and retorque all of the bolts. This is a big deal, and you don't want to skip any of these steps if you don't want to blow the gasket out.
The front set of wheels went on, and the tie rods had to be connected. Then, the fan and belt. Also, the oil filter, alternator, distributor, carburetor, and all connecting lines and hoses.
This has been Self-Reliant Man's weekend uniform for months, now (when we're not at church).
At times, Little Son has tightened up less critical bolts (not the head gasket!) and held items in place or reached his smaller hands into tight spots to tighten nuts. Here, he is helping with the air filter.The grey, pipe-like structure (on left) had to be mounted next. This is the manifold (for air intake and exhaust). This item would cause us trouble a week later on.
This picture shows the alternator (center bottom), the distributor (black box in lower right corner), and all the spark plug lines, as well as the air and exhaust lines (red or rusted pipes on the left). I am feeling really good seeing all these pieces get reassembled. It is much better then the nausea and headaches which I felt when it all got taken apart in the winter.
Here is the radiator, reattached. Yes, it looks like it has seen better days, but a replacement is costly, and might not be as well made as the original.
Nice new radiator hoses. This tractor is an extreme juxtaposition of brand new parts, and of very old ones. Color tells all.

That was all on Memorial Day weekend. This weekend (yesterday), the steps were finished.
One of the steps we had to do was to mount the hood. The hood contains the gas tank.
Little Son was able to steer the lift as the hood was moved into place.
Yeah, we know. It's a rusty old hood, named Ford.
Affix the front grille and the new steering wheel...
Just look at that smile. There's a little girl who has faith in her daddy's abilities.
Then....... start her up! And yes, the engine did start successfully and sound good!
and there was much rejoicing

..only to reveal, within minutes, a significant technical problem, in which the engine would stop whenever the choke was shut off.
and there was much weeping and gnashing of teeth

This puzzling technical problem kept Self-Reliant Man thinking and trying things the rest of the day. I will spare you the details, except to say that he formulated a hypothesis at dinner yesterday, and decided to make the needful changes late last night. He was still in the garage at ten o'clock.

Today, upon trying again, everything went as it should. So today we are following the recommended break-in procedure.....
(re-torquing the head bolts, with Little Son's help)

....... and right now the tractor is being taken for a spin around the property for an hour's worth of engine break-in time. This is biblical. It was recommended in the Antique Tractor Bible (see previous post).
What a wonderful sight this is!And Little Son felt it would be prudent to follow along behind for a few laps, "In case any parts fall off!" as he put it.I guess one of the many unexpected pleasures of this day is seeing the empty space in the garage.

I am so proud of Self-Reliant Man! We shall certainly celebrate his major accomplishment!

This is homeschooling at its finest, at least at our house!
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•8:44 AM
Late Spring is a great time to enjoy the shade of a mighty oak!
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•5:55 PM
I told Self-Reliant Man that I realized that he has been very busy these days, but that I was wondering if he was still reading the Bible every day.
He assured me he was.
Author: Breezy Point Mom
•8:02 AM
I caught this article over the weekend. I found the article to be extremely ironic, and it was definitely interesting to see at least one Russian columnist's perception of American culture, churches, and education. At the same time, the article makes you want to cry.

A few months ago, a local TV news anchor was grilled for mentioning the "M word" to then Sen. Bid*n in an interview. Talk was that she had put her career in jeopardy for even bringing up the subject. What are the critics thinking now?

(Please excuse me for the photos that accompany articles on the Pravda website. Just another glimpse at post soviet culture, I suppose.)


http://english.pravda.ru/opinion/columnists/107459-0/